Teenage First Love And The Role Of Parents And Guardians
It is sometimes perceived that a teens first love is social experimentation combined with a rollercoaster of hormones with no true emotional ties. Not so. Everyone experiences their first teen romance with different circumstances, but it’s often said to teens by their parental figures that a teen romance is nothing but that, an innocent romance. Telling these impressionable, young adults you won't know love until you’re older, or you won't understand relationships until you've been through many, is one the biggest misconceptions. A first relationship is what will be used as a stepping stone for teens as they learn how they want to be treated and figuring out the thoughts that run through their young minds.
Rather, it could be better for parents, teachers, and guardians to give good advice to these teenagers so that their relationship does not bring unpleasant ups and downs. Teenage relationship if good, enhances self-esteem, promotes self-confidence and, typically, acts as the antidote against bad habits like drugs, drinking, and sex addiction. Teenagers being in a transitional period of psychological and physical changes, adolescents are more curious and fragile about the other sex. Thus, it is evident, they believe and fantasize about loving relations. They do not contemplate whether a relationship is good or bad. So, why not the guardians be an option for them to talk to about love and relations, and let them be independent? I don't think just because you are responsible for caring for a child you should completely close your heart to them having a different teenage experience than your own. Rather, let us adolescents experience life for ourselves, develop the trust for us to speak and communicate with our guardians. This would allow both the guardian and the teenager to recognize and respect each other. Teenagers are simply going to become interested in life and need to stay connected and need to get thoughts about what would happen in time and its possibilities. Guardians should be there to inform them, rather than shut down the talk completely. Teenage relationships are not a new phenomenon. Today it looks like small kids are getting crushes on peers and celebrities. Teenagers are actively engaged in the search for the person. But most parents often fear this moment when their teenagers start to date. The best way to control teen relationships is for parents to not be judgmental towards their teenagers and make a connection with them. I think almost all guardians want to keep their teenagers or kids sheltered from the evils of the outside world. But in actuality exposure is the best thing, it helps to improve personality, social necessities, and experience to do basic activities.
Teenage first love often gets thrown with the phrase, 'young love,' which is exactly what it is, an innocent eye opened to many new perspectives and emotions, young love is where the real magic happens. There is a reason teen romance movies and television shows have been satisfying teenagers and adults for ages. Regardless of how old somebody becomes, there's something about a teen love story that keeps people coming back. You should never shut down the possibilities associated with a teen romance. Developing relationships with family, friends, boyfriends or girlfriends and all relationships that get defined as a teen. Make sure there is always people you can trust and count on because the older you get the more you realize that's all you need.
