The Reasons Why I Do Not Want To Get Married

Everyone has a different way of life and love, you do not have to be like someone and imitate the same thing when you do not feel like it. Marriage is considered one of the great things of life. But not everyone is interested in it. There are people who like to marry but some people do not like to hurry to stick with his life. And the paradox is that the more people hate marriage the more the more. When I asked my friend why she did not like to marry someone, she told me calmly, "I'll tell you eight reasons why I and many others do not want to get married. When you finish hearing, you have the same thoughts as us. " And here are my 8 reasons:

Only you know what you want

Not getting married allows us to live a completely free life. I can do it right, I can do wrong without fear of anyone judging or influencing my spouse. Putting yourself up on the head is selfish, but it really just means that I want to focus on developing myself well. Marriage is dependent on each other for happiness, living alone is not needed anyone.

Your money is still yours

One of the biggest problems of couples is the financial situation. No couple can be sure that they will not quarrel over money matters of the family during their years together. What are the salaries, bonuses, money for the parents of the two parties, the crowd is the other, then when the child has milk money, saving money to buy the southeast direction, money to buy a 7 seat spacious. Countless money makes me tired. So I and a lot of other people choose not to get married to avoid undue financial conflicts. My own money, self-consumption, self-savings, generally I do not like sharing financial situation with anyone else.

Not to love each other is to get married

Who says marriage is the best way to prove to the other that you love them so much? Showing love in a different way and marriage is just one of them! I still love my longtime boyfriend but we never mentioned marriage as a way to show love to the enemy. Instead we give each other small gifts, sometimes travel long days together. That's enough.

Traveling comfortably

Yes, talking about travel, people who are not bothered about family issues tend to travel more than those who are married. We have enough time and money to do what we like without being dependent on anyone. Do not get embarrassed by your bride's wedding, her grandfather's death anniversary, or the weekend's having to eat a meal to present to her parents. . . I have plenty of time to be here and there, explore more than just hang out. Around in the kitchen with pots and pans.

Marrying can make other relationships complicated

Marriage will change many things in my life. Relations with my family, relatives and friends will make me feel like I'm living in a different world than I have ever known before. I or others are not prepared to confront the family storm is sure to dazzle when entering marriage life. So I choose a safe way, will not get married until after finishing all the TVB family drama storm.

Have conditions to invest for your own future

Instead of spending a lavish wedding, a honeymoon, a new house, new furniture. . . then I can use the money to business or invest in profit for myself. Not many people have the same thoughts as me. A few hundred million, even close to a billion for a wedding can help us do this or that and if you have the ability to manage finances as well as cool hands a little, that money will give birth to 3 or 4 And when we get married, it's not too late (if you want).

Who can be sure you will not divorce?

Nobody said anything about divorce. There are too many problems in my family life that make me think of breaking up with my husband. The higher divorce rate also makes many people afraid of getting married because of what they do and then leave each other. Then why do not we just do not marry because anyway, break up is simply to do divorce procedures.

Others are getting married does not mean you have to get married also

Everyone has a different way of life and love, I do not think I need to be like someone and imitate the same thing when I do not feel like myself. Is there anyone living for my life, if I get married without fun, arguing all day, no one can live on my behalf. This society has imposed so many standards on us, do not let anyone control who we are married to and when.