Exploring and Understanding Personal Social Identity
Social Identity is a term which can be defined as what kind of relationship we are having with one another. Everyone have their own social identities based on their groups. ExplainEveryone of us having multiple groups of which they are part of. I also have multiple groups as well. These groups play a curtail role in one’s life also in my life to. Our groups are responsible for making our character like what we were in the past and what we are now.
First I am going to talk about my past group. I was having a group of six members including me. Every day we catch-up and do a lot of fun like by doing some activities like playing cricket. We go for a ride of our town and many more. Every group member was important. Like I have mentioned above we play cricket along, I was the captain of our team. In gali cricket its not mandatory to have eleven players to play. I had that quality because of which I lead them how to play. What will be the game plan was decided by me. Also they appreciate me to do this because they know I can do this easily and in a perfect manner. For them I was the most important member of the group as I took all the decisions in the group which ever case it related to. All of them trust me that I will never do anything wrong. This is my nature as well. Apart from playing in studies I also help everyone. To make them understand if any topic they are not getting. I use to talk very politely to everyone. So everyone loves to talk to me.
Once my school was organised a fest at school. My teachers gave me the responsibility to check the entries and allocating the seats for the guests. I took my group and make them understand what we have to do. I managed whole the things in right manner. Every member of my group plays their role very well. These some of the activities helped me to shape up my leadership quality, as well as the resource management quality, how to interact with one another and lot more. It really helped me to understand what qualities actually I am having in me. Now I talk about my current group. Now I am the part of a new group in which every group member id from a different place. But in very less amount of time we become a very good friends, we catch-up not daily but a day after. Every person in the group is very nice. This group is almost same as that of the group I had. We enjoys the thing together like the new place where we study and the place here we are living in. In this group also I am learning new things and realising some new qualities in me. Like in this group also i use to take the decisions like what should we eat from the cafeteria, where we should go for a round after the collage timings. I f don’t feel any difference in this or my previous group, because some of the things are common in both. Also what I discover new in me is I make the group environment happy and cheerful. I cannot see anyone to be sad, I try to make everyone happy.
Another thing that I feel is enhancing in me is my communication skill. I use to talk to everyone who belongs to different places because of which we need to talk in English only so that everyone can understand. This everyday talk makes me feel that my communication skill is improving. My communication is much better than previous time. So these things make me shaping in a good manner and I am sure that in upcoming times many new things I will develop in me.
