Fear Mustn’T Control The Life Of A Person
Fear is you being imprisoned in a room full of voice, screaming that you cannot do it. It wipes out your courage as you walk towards triumph. But how much do you really want to conquer it, for you can live it the other way around?
According to Collin’s Dictionary fear is the unpleasant feeling you have when you think that you are in danger. If you fear someone or something, you are frightened because you think that they will harm byou. It is also a thought that something unpleasant might happen or might have happened. It is normal and acceptable that there are fears living through the inner us, gradually occupying the space of our valiance l a weapon that we use as we face and live within this chaotic world. According to Lisa Fritscher the fear of rejection is a powerful fear that aften has a far-reading impact on our lives must people experience some nerves when placing themselves in situations that could lead to rejection, but for some people, the fear becomes crippling.
An untreated fear of rejection bonds to worsen over time, gradually taking over virtually every part of a sufferer is life, oftenly ending up into this horrible depression. According to Lisa Fritscher one of the most common phobias is pyrophobia, or the fear of fire, which stems from an ancient and primal fear. Since fire is potentially dangerous, a bit of fear is healthy and normal. So not everyone who fears that a blaze can ignite in their home if they aren't careful suffers from pyrophobia.
People with pyrophobia are unable to tolerate even well-controlled small fires and often exhibit physical symptoms, like dizziness, when coming in contact with fire. The fear of losing someone you love is an addition too. These fears comes into whenever we feel lost we are afraid to lose the ones who used to shed light into our life whenever it is lightness and cold. Because they are also the ones who we are grown so much with as we finally surpassed all the trials and challenges that life bought. And finally in spite of these outrageous fear that been colonizing us for long period of time.
We cannot deny that with the help of these fears, and negative insights, it would indeed transform us into more mature person that is always ready whatever combat life nay being. Being an outcast or being alone while feeling that everyone does not want you is a serious matter too. We felt that no matter how much we try to be part of group of friends or joining several conversation of your collegues, it is still not enough. Because your conscience and at the same time anxiousness often pokes. You saying no one loves you. No one wants you. And no one ever does!And the most worrisome part is that you are being carried away in the river of overthinking.
Fear of heights is where I am afraid is just an emotion. Whenever I step on such high places, may it be a 5 storey building or higher, I want to cringe because it is always like I will fall. To sum this all up, fear is just an emotion. It should have not nailing and manipulating what you want to do or what you wanna say because it is your life, and you should be the one who must control the life you are living. Surpassing your limits and going outside of your comfort zone would be great and of course should do it with God.
