The Common Phobias I Am Not Scared Of
In primitive ages, fear is defined as an instinct where weakness and dangers are identified. In today’s era, the same definition still applies but fear mostly comes from assumption, chances of embarrassments and perfectionism. If a person is not being able to face fear, they are most likely to miss opportunities like learning, accomplishing desires and most of all to feel comfortable. A person who can overcome fear can be seen more happy and free than a person who is not because fear will make us feel trapped and insecure and this is never a good for us.
Some things that I am comfortable for me and scary of other are public speaking. I never had the trouble of going up the stage and speaking in-front of thousands of people. Many people have this fear and from others reaction, I think I can probably consider this as the one of the most feared. But for me it is not much of a big deal since child hood and I feel lucky not to have this fear. I think this is because I have interest in speaking or rather I try to have fun while I am doing it. I learned that by taking interest, fear will not exist or I can say that interest is the cure to what we fear.
Other thing that I am comfortable with is heights. I enjoy the excitement rather than fear it. The best thing that could happen if I faced my fear is it would help me to attain my goals and aspirations like I will not have the trouble to explore and research on ideas and knowledge regarding my goal and plan for the best time for action. If I could overcome the anxiety and fear of failure of my goals, I will not hesitate to try new stuff and risk a bit without hesitation. If I could face the fear of letting my parents down I would be able to expand my horizon. I knew that if I stayed in fear, I will not achieve them and the anxiety will kill my positivity that will lead to stress and amnesty to myself.
The scariest thing I have ever experienced is deep waters and pool. Every time I go near a vast water body, I get dizzy without even dipping my toes in it. My heart just lifts up and I will not be able to breathe until I turn my eyes off it. This is because of the incident I had when I was a toddler. I almost drowned in a river when I was playing with my friend near the river bank. This has left me with Aqua phobia from then on wards.
